Our adoption
paperwork is still in the black hole called IBESR, but after some research, we’re
so thankful and blessed to be there.
Because of the quota system, many families are still waiting to get in. I found a group on Facebook that consists of
a bunch of other families adopting from Haiti.
I have been amazed. For example,
one family’s dossier was in IBESR for over a year, and the family was finally
told their paperwork had been found behind a filing cabinet. Crazy.
I have also found that there is absolutely no rhyme or reason to any
part of the adoption process in Haiti. For
some, their paperwork was in IBESR for three months. For others, it was seven or eight months or
even a year or more. First come, first served isn’t part of their culture
either. It’s about as random as you can
get. The Facebook group is a place to vent with
others who know exactly what you’re going through, but it’s also a place to
celebrate and rejoice with others when good news finally comes your way. It has
been fun to follow others as they move from step to step. It’s especially exciting to read when someone
gets to have that coming home party. We
have faith that we’ll get there exactly when God has planned. My heart has grown, but that space wants to be filled. It has created an ache that’s hard to explain, but I am very thankful for
the peace that God has provided. We have
a mountain in front of us, but God can move any mountain. Please pray that God will push us
through.
Wednesday, April 10, 2013
How to Grow Your Heart
Your capacity to
love grows the more you love. After
Kynady was born, and we decided she needed a sibling, I didn’t think I could
love any more. I thought I would have to
split my heart into two pieces, but love doesn’t work that way. When Elijah was born, my heart just doubled. I had no idea that I could have that much
love to give. Love works the same way
with others. Once you choose to love
someone, there’s no going back. And
there’s no such thing as sharing your heart.
Caterina Favino, our exchange student from Italy is a Thomas now. In an earlier blog, I wrote that I had no
idea why we agreed to host an exchange student.
Well, God knew what he was doing when he put Cate with us. She has been
with us for about seven months, and that’s long enough for us to claim her as
our own. We love her as if she is our
own flesh and blood, and having her here has removed any doubts about our capacity
to love another outside the biological realm of a family. I don’t know if she
knows yet what she has gotten herself into.
I don’t know what it’s going to be like when she leaves. I know we’re not ready to let her go, and she
will always hold her own place in our hearts.
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